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Some of the strongest, most self-reflective people I know can still fall prey to the insidious judge that goes by the name of “people pleaser”. I was speaking with a friend today about the incredible strides she’s been making to recognize when she subverts her needs, values, or desires to someone else. However, that old judge “people pleaser” still rears its head. Try as she might to smash that head down with her self-awareness mallet, like a vicious game of whack-a-mole, it keeps popping back up.
This is NORMAL! The limiting beliefs we’ve had for years don’t disappear just because we’ve learned to see them. Whether people pleasing or something else, those limiting beliefs live in deep grooves in our brains called neural pathways. Unlike a gopher on a golf course, you can’t flush your beliefs out and fill in the tunnels they left behind. Those neural pathways are here to stay. The way to combat them is to do just what the heroine in my story is doing. Learn to recognize your judgmental nemesis, dismiss it, and carve a new, parallel pathway that supports and honors your dreams, desires, and deservingness.
What our mallet wielding heroine admitted to me is that doing this on your own is hard. It can be exhausting, frustrating, and just plain hard to see those pesky judging comments we make to ourselves. Just like all the judges – and yes, we all have a supreme court’s worth of them, lurking, waiting to cut us down and make us hide in the shadows – people pleasing is really a response to the fear that somehow, we aren’t enough exactly as we are. That ultimately, we’ll be rejected just for asserting our own needs.
This is why coaching is so powerful. Coaches are your partner in spotting those pop-up judgmental thoughts. As a coach, I am your wing-person. I help you see how you are holding yourself back, playing small, and giving in to those old fears and stories. I help you figure out how to ditch the mallet, strap on your own pair of wings, and learn to soar above the field where it’s easy to spot the limiting beliefs and leave them in the dust. You learn to build a life you love living, leave the limitations behind, and leap into action with a new attitude of possibility, peace, and potential.
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While people pleasing can lead to resentment and bitterness, giving with a full heart breeds love and abundance. In that spirit, and as my Valentine’s present to you, I’d like to gift one lucky winner a FULL COACHING PACKAGE; three months of 1:1 coaching, my coaching workbooks, and full access to me any time you need a reminder that you are amazing. I’m so excited about this that I’ve mixed every metaphor I could think of to get your attention.
I will pick a winner Monday, February 24th, on my birthday! This is my birthday present to me – sharing my incredible coaching program with one lucky winner! It’s my way of giving back with gratitude for all that my coaching journey has brought me over the past 7 years. In the meantime, enjoy my Inner Wisdom 3-2-1 Begin! email that you’ll receive as a bonus just for entering, and get tools to help you take action every day. My bi-monthly email always has three self-reflection questions, two inspirational quotes, and one take-action activity. You can sign up for Inner Wisdom HERE without any obligation to enter the contest.
What are some of the judges, such as procrastination, perfectionism, self-doubt, the need to be right (you’ll meet them all in the workbooks!) that trip you up?
What would be different if you didn’t judge yourself or worry about other people judging you?
How would it feel to let go of your limiting beliefs?
What would be possible in your life if you could live with passion, fuel your purpose, identify your ideal personal vision and execute it with courage to make amazing things happen in your life? How would that feel?
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Note: Coaching results are not guaranteed. Your results will match your effort and willingness to change – but we work together to make everything you are hoping for possible. Winner must be psychologically appropriate for coaching as determined by a pre-coaching interview.
About Your Coach
Lauren Yellin Weinberg, MS, NBC-HWC
empowerment & well-being coach
Lauren is the founder of Lasting Change Wellness, LLC. She is an empowerment coach and an expert for Living Healthy List, and a frequent guest speaker for organizations, podcasts and live events.